See What Happens

by Scott Harper

“We must learn the consequence of negligence. It's not just what we do, it's what we don't do that's important as well. We are guilty by omission.”

Matthew McConaughey

March 4, 2026

“I don’t want to clean my room.” ­— Then don’t.

“I don’t want to go to school.” — Then don’t.

“I don’t want to practice.” ­— Then don’t.

“I don’t want to go to work.” — Then don’t.

“I don’t want to deal with that person.” — Then don’t.

“I don’t want to exercise.” — Then don’t.

“I don’t want to go to the doctor.” — Then don’t.

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There are so many things in life that frustrate us, annoy us, seem pointless, or simply just aren’t appealing. As we age, the little things we avoid often have much bigger consequences when ignored.  

Don’t get me wrong—some things are probably best kept in the past. But if you want a good life and healthy relationships, putting in the time and effort is a must. The only person who can do your part is you.

SHARPER LEADER:

1.      What is something you’ve been neglecting that you know you shouldn’t?

  • Action Step: Write down one thing you’ll stop putting off— and get to work.   

 

2.      Who have you been avoiding because of hurt, annoyance, or anger?

  • Action Step: If this is a person you need—or eventually want—in your life, take the first step towards restoration. Seek professional assistance if necessary.

 

3.      What helps you do “the hard things”?

  • Action Step: Listen to those who struggle. If they ask for help, share what works for you. If they don’t ask, let your results speak for themselves.   

 

Recommended book: Greenlights by Matthew McConaughey

Before next week’s The Sharper Minute: Identify one thing you don’t want to do but know you should. Do it! Start small, and eventually, you’ll go big.   

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